Getting the Love You Want

Relationships begin in such intense and blissful connection. After a while, that connection lessens and the original object of our intense desire somehow becomes the source of our frustration. In other words, “the thing we fall in love with ends up being the thing that drives us nuts”.

Why does this happen?

Come and explore the unconscious attraction that brought you together, how it becomes the source of conflict, and what to do about it. In the Getting the Love You Want weekend workshop, you will discover the psychology of attraction and the power struggle. You will receive an array of tools designed to help your relationship move beyond the patterns of negative reactivity and into conscious love, where you live more intentionally, communicate more effectively and feel connected again.

As a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, I get to see wonderful healing and amazing re-connections with couples in my office. My job is educating (Imago Theory) and deepening communication in order to create the connection, understanding and healing. This is my passion. I love it because it works.

If you want to accelerate “getting to the love”, we strongly encourage the weekend, which is connecting, intensive and comparable to dozens of private sessions. By Sunday afternoon, you are in a much better place, and fighting is no longer necessary because you have a much more effective means to resolve relationship conflict, even achieving a feeling of connection in the process.

Oprah regularly talked about Imago and specifically this workshop. You can hear her discussing it here: https://omny.fm/shows/oprah-s-supersoul-conversations/getting-the-love-you-want

The workshop is primarily educational. My presentation style tends to be lively and interactive. You will be engaged, but YOU WILL NOT BE REQUIRED TO DISCLOSE PERSONAL INFORMATION. I will present information on many relationship issues, including the psychology of attraction, the brain and chemistry involved in partner selection, why and how we fight and do the things we do in relationship (and nowhere else), and more. It also teaches effective ways to create conscious love in place of the power struggle, eliminating the need for fighting and defensive behavior. We’ll also explore a number of ways to connect and re-romanticize your relationship.

Financially and time wise, the weekend is more economical because you receive so much more information and practical help over the course of the weekend than in hourly sessions.

Please check the events listing for dates.